This basically means that gay men do not look different from your “normal” heterosexual male. In fact, you could actually be the captain of your football team and be a homosexual rather than a heterosexual. Just because you are not as macho as your college football captain does not mean that you are gay. How do you know whether you are gay or not? In fact, how can anyone know whether they are homosexual or heterosexual or bisexual? If this is the question that’s bothering you, the first thing that you need to do is let go off the stereotypes.